10- The likes of Marissa Miller and Megan Fox. No one will ever get this.
9- If any of you are lucky to get so close to perfection, feel blessed. If you fuck this up, you should be lynched. This is your ceiling.
8- See #7
7-Wife Status. Be careful not to fuck this up.
6-Date Status. Be careful when you cheat, but still cheat
5-Apply the 5×5 rule. Toot it 5 times, and then boot it. Move onto the next piece of pie.
4-One night stands, but they are fairly attractive. Should not be repeats.
3-The filth cut-off. These are not attractive women, but sadly many of you have fucked these.
2-Still filth. Still Pathetic.
1-Anything this close to 0 is bad. You better be 3 four lokos deep to justify this abomination
0-Let me just say from experience, when calculating your lifetime pie accumulation, throwing a 0 in the mix really hurts the average

Courtesy Jezebel, it is an except of a well intentioned frat member trying his best to elevate the state of his fellows. While we should commend his intent, what we have at hand is the one-eyed man with cataracts trying to fly a planeload of the blind through a canyon.

The basic problem is this-men are just not taught how to value or relate to women properly by mindset.Theyre raised with a default bias for pro-matriarchial thinking, and its so invasive that even a man with natural game has trouble escaping this broken perspective.

The bottom of the “Matriachial Mindset” is the basement dwelling white knight , whose only contact with unrelated women is signing for his pizza delivery from the creeped out college chick Dominos employee.Seeing such a man chained to the Matriarchy isnt a shock, but even self labeled cocksmen like the author of the above piece are chained themselves.

“The likes of Marissa Miller and Megan Fox.No one gets these.”

NOPE.

Those women arent prophets from heaven.Theyre people-inaccessible only because theyre famous.A man in their social circle has the chance to game and sleep with either of them;most of us cant because we have to work for a living , and they predominantly dont.They also party in places where blowing $10,000 in one evening is a typical Monday night.Dont know about you guys, but I cant afford that crap.

“Wife status.Be careful not to fuck this up”

Fuck up what, exactly? The opprotunity to donate half your worldly stuff by force of law to a woman literally uglifying by the second? The opprotunity to come home from the 9-5 to catch her in bed with the same guy who was banging Meghan Fox last week? Why is wife status even a thing when pussy is a resource counted literally in the billions?

Even guys who should rationally know better still operate by the Matriarchy’s orders-man meets pretty girl, sires and pays for her kids (siring optional) ,dies .

I speak for myself here, but my view of that mandate is “Blow it out thine ass.”

“The Matrix is all around us.Even now, in this very room. It is there when you go to church, when you go to work….when you pay your taxes.”

Lawrence Fishburne’s delivery of that line in the character of Morpheus sums up the pervasive nature of the Modern Matriarchy .

The psychological effect for the unplugged man can be something akin to being the lead character in an “Invasion of the Body Snatchers” remake. The people look normal, the trains are running on time, the bills arrive as usual….but something is WRONG WITH THE WORLD.

Worse, the cavalry wont be coming.
You can’t call 911.
You can’t call the FBI.
Interpol can’t save you, and neither will the Ghostbusters.

There isnt a computer virus our singular hero can upload into an alien computer network,thus saving humanity from the Horrors of Hypergamy.

Because this is real life.

Due to the proprietary nature of redpill knowledge, it isn’t like a man thus disposed can merely grab a chair and confess his true thoughts to the nearest man-not if he wishes to remain free. Much like the Matrix, the redpill truth is so gut-burningly out there it cannot be told plainly to a plugged in individual.

When a freed man sees another man being ruthlessly beaten mentally by some woman, he can only watch.

When a freed man sees a life wrecked emotionally, financially, and spiritually -and this can happen multiple times through the course of a day-he cannot call Dad and say ” I need your counsel, for I have seen dreadful things.”

He cannot call Mom, and state the same.

Should he call a friend, unless said friend is similarly unplugged, he will be met with accusations of excess intoxication and temporary insanity.

Clearly our redpill man was seeing things. The wife he observed was NOT browbeating her husband-he just wasn’t meeting her emotional needs.

That was why his best friends wife was openly hitting on him.Another woman being left in the emotional lurch.

This depressing state of affairs happens because of three things;

System One;Family.
The first level of the Matriarchal Matrix starts here. Family -however it may be composed- sets about the socially respectable job of ensuring the male child matures with as close to no traditional masculine qualities. If the family is run by a masculine father, its no matter-the schools are run by the government, and the government run by the M.M.

Not only does this mean the male is denied a redpill voice growing up , but assuming he is one of the lucky few to exit the M.M. he will be forever hounded to follow the script by his own flesh and blood.

System Two; Careers.

First one begins with school. No need to explain how government run schools from kindergarten to senior year of college reinforce the Matriarchy in its student.

Then one progresses to the workplace-an avenue notoriously intolerant of divergent opinions. Given that the reason most men hold high paying jobs is to fund the activities of women, the most divergent opinion of all is that men can choose to not join that trend. Divergent employees are put on the slow career track, or are discharged at the fastest chance offered.

System Three; Media.
After a work week spent dodging the hypergamous machinations of women and their Coppertop manginas at the office , a nice relaxing evening in front of the tube with a beer sounds like the exact ticket.

Yet, all you’ve done is cross into the last domain of the M.M.: Media.

This is perhaps the most dangerous of the three, because of how mentally infectious it is. One can reject illogical M.M. derived ideas in the academic or even in the family environment as they’re presented either openly or via the shallowest of camouflage.

Modern media, however, almost oozes feminism in even the most male-oriented genres. Action movies show women thinking and behaving with the best characteristics of men; or they’re presented as innocent damsels in distress who require a macho Colonel Save-A-Ho to bail them out of some man-created problem.

Working in concert as they do, all three ensure even if a man is exposed to red pill thinking from a masculine father, an indie film , or a school friend the other two systems back each other up to ensure lasting escape doesnt happen.

For the men who do, those systems also serve as a constant form of psychological siege warfare. You might have exited the Matrix, but unlike the film you can always go back to it. It makes life at work ,and your family life so much easier to wife up a single mom and return to the slumber of The System.

Many PUAs and freed men do just that. Multiple people consider it a sign of cowardice or intellectual dishonesty, but the honest truth is more nuanced and disturbing. The redpill man really is setting himself against the grain of society-and its a lifelong commitment. There will be no relief , no cavalry or last minute rescue. We are born into the Matriarchy, and barring some drastic and unforeseen calamity society as a whole will remain so when we all age into AARP eligibility-when matters will doubtlessly be much crazier then the current extremes.

I won’t support a man who turns his back on the truth for a comfortable lie, but we have to acknowledge that it takes great mental fortitude to not simply yield to the constant social pressure. It is mental fortitude not every man is going to have-yet another reason the common MGTOW trope of “One day We Will Throw Off These Chains” is a pipe dream. Even if freedom were offered to men on an equal standing as Matriarchal life, many would give up after realizing they’ll never be able to share their honest attitudes and views to another live soul again.

For now, we have the internet as a medium. I forsee the day coming when even this venue will be censored for anti-establishment thinking.Until then, we truly do only have each other. Us redpill men must hang together, or we will surely hang separately

“Code Zero…Zero….Zero….One”

‘Destruct Sequence Authorized….’

the Starship Enterprise’s computer elaborates.

‘No Further Warning Will Be Made’.

Not ten minutes later , the ship -and most of Kirk’s enemies- are vaporized in a massive explosion as the ship detonates its own reactor.

This little trip down Star Trek memory lane is brought to you by this article :

http://www.foxnews.com/us/2015/04/04/man-dies-from-self-inflicted-gunshot-wound-inside-california-theme-park/

In summary; man distraught over Girl Problems brings a weapon to an amusement park-his baby mommas workplace- and then blows himself away .

The connection between Science Fiction and this tragic event is this-when a man sees death as a logical solution to an impossible dilemma, that’s exactly what hell do .
I’ll confess here and now that I’m neither a mental health professional , nor someone who knows the ins and outs of depression.

I do have a working brain , however-and it doesnt take a grand amount of intellect to realize when society tells a man his entire purpose is to uphold a woman’s needs financially and emotionally, only to be jettisoned like the appliance women actually consider him to be- he’s liable to go nuts.

This effect is actually quite predictable once we understand how the Matriarchy works . The programming starts in the family home, where Mom calls the shots and either directly undermines Dad’s authority in front of him-or undermines him covertly behind closed doors. Juniors taught to love and support women as a proper male servant-further, that his very identity as a man is forever connected to pleasing a woman.

That woman in childhood is his mother. When he hits puberty, he’s taught to please other women of his peer group. The message Mom usually leaves is not “don’t consort with girls” or “understand what they want and react for your own best interest.” The message is typically “Stay loyal to your girlfriend, never lie to her, always be a ‘gentleman’ by yielding to her every desire.’

Should this first relationship go belly up, no matter the actual cause the words to the young man are essentially this;

” Its your fault. You didn’t support her-you didn’t treat her right-etc.”

Even if she’s guilty of adultery or some relationship misconduct, the party line is the same.

A lifetime of this female-first programming does two horrible things to modern males. One, if a man finds a girl hell proceed from the mindset of a man told to serve his woman-and no woman can ever respect a slave. This is true whether the guy is a violent gangster or the meekest nerd -which is yet another reason why I eschew the popular “alpha/beta/omega” terminology so common in the Red worldview.

Two-and this is the fate destined for most men , Hypergamy being what it is- it sets up a man to implode when the day comes a female just doesnt want him anymore. Being rejected by a woman isn’t just a matter of a relationship problem -its a personal indictment. If you’re kicked out of the modern household by a woman, somehow you were unfit for duty as a proper male appliance.

The psychological damage from that alone is enough to make a man want to eat a pistol. Add in the realization that your “perfect girl” lied to you , and now not only has left you but wants literally nothing further to do with your presence except as an ATM machine………and atop that society is taking HER side …..well, many men sometimes figure going out your way makes sense.

Add in the legal complications like alimony, state mandated child support (aka pay or go to jail) and being denied a role in your child’s life, and many a man may figure he’s not only better off dead to make the pain stop-its his only , last voice of freedom. The Matriarchy can take away his reasons to live which it itself programmed him to be , but it can’t take away his last choice to permanently opt out of the whole shebang.

This is why an LA Sheriffs deputy witnessed a man shoot himself at an amusement park.

This is why so many veterans come home and decide death is a more honorable fate then being bled dry by the Matriarchy.

This is why 150 people died when their airliner slammed into the French Alps at 450 knots.

I hated these conversations.

It was four years ago. In terms of mindset, I don’t even know who that Octavian was anymore.

Still plugged into the Matriarchy Matrix, I figured if I treated my woman well and wasn’t a doormat, I’d do fine.

Tomassi calls that the Relationship Equity schema. I call it my greatest mental failure.

After routine couples sex, we were cuddled together watching the Food Network at her place.

“You wouldn’t believe what my friend did”..

Try me, I said.

I prepared myself for another extensive discussion on wall sconces and IKEA furniture. What was I on to deal with this over pussy…..

Returning to the night in question, she tells me two things.One, that her friend recently married a Navy sailor. Two, she banged a local guy to get knocked up so as to pass the kid off as her husbands.

That’s the SECOND time I’d encountered the topic. It was so shocking my bluepill brain simply blocked the topic and changed the subject.

This all came back to me at work, as the pretty wife of a boring guy coralling three kids shot me some serious IOIs. The tension went up exponentially when he went to ” the car” to get something.

I was just a part time floor assistant picking out flooring samples to show her, but in that interaction I was more of a man to her then her own husband.We can reasonably conclude based on her looks and actions I’m not the first one to elicit that reaction.

Which calls into question whose DNA sired those kids . I seriously doubt it was the husbands.
We now come to that dark and horrible place, the place seemingly no one in society dares talk about-the nature of female cuckolding.

The “Cad Sex, Beta Cash” dynamic is almost boilerplate knowledge even among bluepill men.Whether they accept it is another matter, but returning to the topic at hand ;that dynamic exists in the hypergamous software for a reason. The reason is optimal genetic output for HER.

Lets start at the top-us men broadly speaking spread our genes by frequency of sex. There are some noteable exceptions ill discuss down the line, but its a “quantity over quality” situation for us males.

The girls, naturally, dont play by these rules.When she’s knocked up, she’s down for the count to the tune of at least 9 months.That’s a lot of physical effort expended to gestate a child. Makes sense then that if she’s going to go the trouble of getting knocked up, the output thereof needs to be as top drawer as possible.

Hence , cucolding is the ultimate outcome of the “Cad Sex, Beta Cash” philosophy. According to available research on DNA tested newborns , 3 in 10 couples are found to have a genetic mismatch between the father listed on the birth certificate and the child.

In our modern social structure, this sort of thing can have truly lasting consequences.One, biologically the odd child out in the family doesnt track with their siblings, as theyre not actually genetic relatives. Not only will their personality not match with the rest of the family’s, but when the kids hit puberty life gets VERY interesting.

See, the “cucolded” product child is , genetically , a total stranger to the rest of the family. In many tragic instances we observe father-daughter, sister-brother relations, or some other variation and wonder why it is they’d do such a blatantly horrible thing. The 3-in-10 instances of genetic cucolding put this sordid behavior into a new light; if we know scientifically 30% of families are raising someone else’s kid under false pretenses,that translates to a lot of American family members putting to bed with VERY confusing feelings.

Take a close look at your family tree sometime, knowing what this knowledge means. Or not-sometimes buried truths are better left where they lie.Ill let the reader come to that choice themselves and reserve any moral discussions accordingly.

“Why drive, when you can be driven?”

Women are innately talented at proxy conflict. They do not overtly acquire a weapon and directly attack someone,unless they believe said individual is a wuss unlikely to hit back.

Rather, they incite other men to do their dirty work. Like a mob boss with an entourage, when they decide Someone Needs to Be Taught a Lesson, they dont do the work themsleves-too much risk. They send a hired gun to do the dirty business for them.

Let me tell a tale. Years ago, I’d directly moved from a military base with a 20-1 male/ female ratio to a college with a 1/2 equivalent. The transition resulted in me making some unsmart decisions.

One of which was how I wound up in the small town coffeeshop facing my first gender debackle of my second college term.It wouldnt be the last.

“You didnt bring your wallet, eh? Guess youre doing some dishes tonight!”

Two people in the coffee shop didnt like that one bit. One was my date.The other was the mangina behind the counter, whose next words were “be a gentleman and pay her bill!”

Restraining the sudden urge to punch the kid in the face, I turned to the girl in question.Were she not black, she’d be doubtlessly blushing in frustration.

As Adame Levine crooned on in the background, I made an executive decision.I busted on her a few more times, then grudgingly paid the bill.

I was treated to a diatribe in the booth seat about the UN and holocaust survivors as a reward. This woman was broken -worse then a socialite’s iPhone after its taken a ten story tumble into a lake. I decide to soft next this one on the drive back to her place, which was just as well-there was a guy literally waiting for her at the dropoff.

Definitely a warranty case-send this one back to the vendor, RMA tagged with priority shipping.

She texts me out of the blue two hours later, claiming I harassed her.

I make one word, noncomittal responses as I beat it to the college police station.One iron prinicple I was taught by a guy smarter then me-the first person to the authorities wins the credibility race. If I got to the cops before she could, I had at least a small chance of influencing the narrarative. If she filed something before me, my ass was grass.

So it went that I showed the entire text string to a bored looking, grey haired Sergeant wearing a “POLICE FIREARMS INSTRUCTOR” pin. Well there was a ray of hope.Most guys who shoot that often dont tend to deal in feel good feminist bullshit.

The cop walked out twenty minutes later.

“OK son.Where did you serve?”

I told him.

“Alright. Let me clue you in on something-these college broads are something different.Dont fuck with them, or they’ll ruin your ass. Im trying to help ya out here…..”

He elaborated on some redpill ideas for an additional 15 or so minutes.I deserved every minute of the lecture, so I shut up and nodded at the appropriate moments. We shared some guy talk about guns and .45s, and left the conversation as something approaching acquantences.

He then told me what took up his time behind the door labeled “AUTHORIZED PERSONELL ONLY” .He’d called her and in essence set College Cuntling straight anout the consequences of needlessly slandering the reputation of a Veteran.

The end of the story?

Hardly.

I get a phone call from an Indian kid I met the day before at orientation. We meet up, and he tells me of a very fascinating sequence of events.

While I was pleading my case before The Law, he was being told a very entertaining tale of woe and fiction.Turned out my date knew him, and spun a story about me pulling a gun on her amd demanding sexual services. He’d known me well enough before that to understand this bullshit was VERY unlikely, and he’d questioned her story. She merely doubled down on the lies, then insisted HE beat me up as pennance.

That’s right-she tried to turn a mutual acquaintence into a thug for hire.The absurdity of it all was so much we both went “What The Fuck” ,and I actually broke out my stash of Black Label whiskey to share with him over the whole thing.Three years later, we’re close friends now and still laugh at that shit she pulled.

The point still remains-this woman tried to enslist the aid of other men to fuck me up.Had my new friend been more bluepill, the outcome would NOT have been a laugh shared over a warm drink.

This is yet another reason why redpill men must bw extraordinarily careful when dealing with bluepill social groups. If a redpill man offends a woman of any status-which is almost inevitable given enough social interaction-she’ll turn to the “Code Blue” men in the group for some good ol’ physical retribution.If she has to invent a story to twig their sensitivities, she will.

Your next warning this has happened can be a surprise fist to the face, or even a knife or gun directed at you.Sometimes this happens after a breakup; scorned woman runs to her orbiter group and invents a heart tugging tale of woe, and the orbiter group of obedient males in turn vows to “defend her honor”.

Thus we get tragedies like that-and ill admit right now I escaped an a physical fight(and thus negative police attention) and a public record harassment DV charge(and the negative police attention) by luck. Lots of men are not so fortunate.

Something to consider as the pickup artists and Project Blue men advance the line of “just be sociable and meet women.”

Life was good.

The year was 2005.Apple just released the iPod Video, their first music player with a color video screen and a high-capacity 30GB storage drive.Price was $300, which I didnt mind because my parents bought one for my christmas gift.

That iPod, via a hackneyed radio adapter connection, was piping 90’s R&B through my car’s Bose speakers.Tight gear for 1995 ; as high school hand me down cars went my stepdad’s loaded Nissan was fairly nice.

A fact my first girlfriend agreed with, even as we pulled into what had to be the last open parking spot in the suburban Chicago movie theatre parking lot. The good vibes came to a crashing halt as soon as I spotted two disconcerting events; one, my girl was walking ahead of me alone and two-a guy who had to be the late Michael Clarke Duncan’s half brother eyed my girlfriend with the ‘you look good’ gaze us men recognize like a $100 bill.

The ticket taker may as well have handed me a recipt : “Welcome to Club Jealousy Kid!”.

There’s two ways we can look at the problem of Jealousy in the redpill context. One is the evolutionary view, which is easy to describe. Man gets girl after sunk investment of time and resources, man wants to keep girl, but other guys find her attactive too. If man keeps girl from other guys,he knows whatever spawn she bears is his.We should remember here that while the common social perspective is each man needs to get laid as much as possible, some research suggests the “spread your seed” model only applies to a small subset of men in a given population; which is sensible for reasons specifically explored elsewhere.

Other guys banging a dude’s girl is a direct reproductive threat to said guy’s ability to ensure he’s raising his own kid.Hardly a revolutionary determination, but this part should be clarified before tackling the sticky part of how this plays into the Modern Matriarchy.

In the modern schema, females are the primary agents of sexual selection and social power.In the Olde Patriarchy, men were not only tasked with picking the mates but also enforcing female loyalty.A man who slept with another man’s woman was conisdered a dishonorable cad; and in fact HE was held responsible for the overall indiscretion in the way a man robbing a bank could be charged with the accidental shooting of a bystander.In the patriarchal structure this served two overall purposes.One; even if a woman managed to execute her hypergamous goal to step out of her marriage or relationship,a man saying ‘NO’ checked her immediately. Two this served as a social cohesion among men-“Bros Before Hos” is a colloquial expression of this shared loyalty.

Today this social expectation still exists, but has been hijacked by the Matriarchy .A man who cheats or assists with cheating is considered a cad-but because he’s failing in his unspoken duty to be the ‘best servant to the feminine imperative’. A man who’s disloyal makes for a poor financial and emotional servant to a girl.
With women being the primary agents of sexual and coupling, we now have a state whereby jealousy is a constant companion for any attached man.In the modern era , a woman could spin multiple mates and assuming she’s discovered, faces little social recrimination. Such is akin to the Patriarchial times where prosperous men would routinely cheat on their wives as the rest of society looked the other way.As such, a man dating today under a family-raised concept of mutually exclusive pairing has to not only consider how other men may checkout ‘his’ woman , but also that ‘his’ woman may indeed partake of their affections with literally no consequence to her own condition.Should he leave,she’ll simply move on to the next guy she’s keeping on rotation.

We also come to why it is the old custom of “Bros before Ho’s” is dying a fast death in modern times.With men disenfranchised from the ability to select mates on a social level, every guy from major Hollywood movie star all the way down to the McDonalds fry cook simply competes for selection by women.Since men are no longer ‘permitted’ the power of choice, we are all reduced to fighting amongst ourselves for female attention as a gender; turning down pussy for the sake of moral principle must be balanced against the risk of NOT being selected for female company in the future.Given that tradeoff, “Bros Before Hoes” is yet another tradition about to bite the dust.

The saddest component to this new problem of Constant Jealousy is it makes it challenging to unplug men from the Matriarchy.With the realistic impression that an average man is virtually powerless to select mates, he’s basically granted the idea he’s forced to take whatever mate offered to him at whatever moment chance decides.Good luck turning a man’s mindset from this to one of seeing himself as the prize.

The solution to the problem of jealousy is so easy nearly every man misses it-dont become dependent on one woman’s attention.See them for who they are-the affections of one female are hardly unique compared to others. To offer a quote ;

” Love is the illusion that one woman is different from another.”

CITATION COURT APPEARANCE DATE: 23 MARCH 2015 9:00 AM.

I walked into the large oak doors thinking I had a pretty raw deal. The next 120 minutes proved lie to that thought.

“Ouch.Glad I dont have a Domestic Violence case….”.The thought passed through my head as an overweight judge took her chair following the perfunctory “ALL RISE” from the bailiff.Oh was I in for a shock this morning.

A sidelong glance at the wall clock revealed two things.One, that time had somehow stopped . Two ,a former coworker was here too with an attorney. He was a coworker from a previous job I held last summer, so naturally I knew a lot about his family background.

In distilling the bluepill slant, the basic situation for him was this-he met a girl when he was working at the local small town bar. She was his coworker, and at the time was attending the same college im soon to gradaute from. He lost the Hypergamy Hunger Hames-she got knocked up soon after they met.

He follows the “Blue Script” to the T. Moves in with her, helps raises the kid,and takes a job working at the place id soon also work at.Then comes Kid #2.

At the time I left that office, he’s finished his degree via online coursework and was looking for work relevant to his degree. The trouble is-he’s willing to look for work wherever it may be.She wants to stay in this small town sleepyberg.

No jobs for Computer Science professionals in Sleepyberg.

Since he graduated , his domestic life took a tumultuous turn.Even before I left that job, he’d come in complaning about her spending his money recklessly, denying him sex, and being a typical harpy .Judging from the IOIs I recieved when she went by the office one evening , she was also a typical American harpy on the prowl for a side lay.

It all came back to me as he took the stand and pled “guilty” to the judge.

One count of Misdemeanor Assualt.

The State provided the circumstances of the charge. (To keep things clear-in my area, court procedure mandates the State upon plea of “guilty” must still offer a basis of fact for why the judge should accept the plea.The State then presents their evidence amd circumstances of the case as recorded by Law Enforcement.There’s no inversion of the “guilty until proven innocent” prinicple on paper here.)

In essence, my friend got into an argument with his wife whilst driving. That was enough to trigger a roadside arrest and the following consequences:

Marital Counseling.
Domestic Violence Counseling.
Local court-sponsored offender diversion program.
Trial Separation from his wife.

Now-the likely backstory judging by the states relative silence on a domestic violence case,combined with the presence of his attorney, mean the verdict was probably negotiated prior to this court date. In exchange for my friend jumping through socially mandated hoops , the state likely agreed to him pleaing to a “lesser” charge of misdemeanor assault versus a full-monte Domestic Violence conviction.

A conviction which would have been all-but-guaranteed had he not hired a lawyer and cut a deal.

So, while he’s better off with this then the likely alternative, we now have a circular problem he’s in.One-he’s got to pay off the attorney and his legal costs for this case. The judge sentenced him to suspended jail time on the condition he complete his domestic violence counseling-and a $400 fine plus costs.

Given his job and the kids’ expenses plus the aforementioned harpy, he was barely making the grade financially months ago.$400 for him may as well be $1,000,000 . Atop that, he now has a misdemeanor assault charge on his criminal record.

The odds of him getting a career-launching job just hit the skids. Considering the only reason his fiancee is around is due to his income potential, his damaged job prospects mean Game Over for his marriage.

I mention this tale of woe because ,one, he’s not an abuser under The Old Deal.He doesnt drink , assault his wife, or commit any of the things normally associated with true abusers. Problem is, under the New Deal he IS abusing his wife; he cant bring in the income she expects. Ergo, he is failing to uphold his role as a servant to society’s primary members, which makes him philisophically subject to punishment.

His work ethic ,integrity, or future plans are irrelenvant. The only thing which matters to his wife and to matriarchial Law is his capacity to earn.If he cant do that, the message is sharp-clear the shelf and make room for another disposable male a little more in tune with the New Deal.

Two; this is what happens when a man carelessly manages his personal life.With us men being the secondary gender, we can no longer float through life fucking who we want without a secondary care. Every decision taken to involve with a woman MUST fit into a long term plan; because her plan and society’s plan are the same-make you a high performing plowhorse for the Matriarchy. Failure to comply with that New Deal-whether its your fault or not-means ending up in front of a judge at 9:00 AM groveling for your future.

All these negative consequences for my friend stemmed from fucking his coworker on a random lark. This is not to say a man should suffer paralysis by analysis-but plan for a getaway before banging a chick, versus being trapped afterwards.

Apartheid (Afrikaans pronunciation: [ɐˈpartɦɛit]; an Afrikaans word meaning “the state of being apart”, literally “apart-hood”) was a system of racial segregation in South Africa enforced through legislation by the National Party (NP) governments, the ruling party from 1948 to 1994.

Thanks Google!

One wonders what Archemedes could accomplish with that modern search engine.Or perhaps not-as despite his advanced intellect, today men are the Subservient Gender in the New Apartheid.

The Old Apartheid was simply legalized racism.Black people couldnt partake in society in equal measure as white people, and those barbaric practices had the force of law behind them.

While we’ve made great social strides in terms of removing institutional racism, I wonder if all we’ve done is change the criteria of oppression instead.Thanks to the rise of the modern matriarchy, all it seems we have accomplished socially is change the sign from “whites only” to “women only”.

Oh Octavian…youre being too extreme!

Oh,but am I? Observe:

“The other thing is, a gym without dudes means less gymtimidation (which is totally a thing, unfortunately). “Many women just don’t feel comfortable working out around men; they feel judged or intimidated,” adds Shear. That can keep you from reaching your fitness goals. (Not to mention, it means you won’t have to run into any of these guys-you-meet-at-the-gym stereotypes!).”

From :

http://www.womenshealthmag.com/fitness/women-only-gym

Granted, this is not a case of the government mandating single sex segregation. It is , however, a sign of things to come.Women already enjoy an advantage in family court and gender realtions;a man who cheats is still considered a reprobate scumbag, but a girl busted cheated is simply ‘discovering herself’.Women enjoy an economic advantage in that theyre offered signifigant government benefits for having children, plus enjoying the additional income being a girlfriend or wife to a well earning man with poor social skills.

While we are perhaps not far enough down the gun barrel to where men have to wear armbands and observe curfews , the round is definitely being loaded into the barrel. As it stands a man can be arrested on simply the word of a woman.In court earlier today I unexpectedly witnessed the fallout of this exact situation.Put simply-my friend displeased his live-in fiancee. That was enough to trigger a court appearance, misdemeanor charges pled down from what would have been a rubber stamp Domestic Violence rap,legal fines, the necessity of an attorney, and having to grovel before an overweight female judge that showing spine in his relationship was a “personal mistake”.

A lot of men, especially those in the manosphere, chalk all this up to simply social brakes being removed on hypergamy.I postulate something far more fundamental-women are being elevated to the role of the “ubergender”, and we men are soon to occupy the place of the ghetto Jew in 1930’s Western Europe. We men still have sexual and economic utility, so crowds of people being mass murdered by low SMV women are unlikely to happen. We are approaching a place where the only way a man can fully participate in society ,is if he’s sponsored by the Ubergender.

Want to advance in academia? If you dont pay your intellectual dues to your Ubergender, male, you wont be allowed to progress.Observe the “free speech” marketing too well and you’ll even be cashiered out of the college.

Want to advance economically? Youll need to be a “team player” and help your female superiors in the business look good. If you disagree on some patriarchial notion of “equal work for equal pay”, youll be jettisoned for a male who Knows His Place.

In the years to come, us men will need to keep a close eye on the statute books. As it is , there is plenty of material to ensure any masculine man can be locked up for Defying The Female Ubergender.

Lets start with Dictionary.com:

Full Definition of ALPHA

1

: the 1st letter of the Greek alphabet — see alphabet table

2

: something that is first : beginning

We’re not learning Greek on this blog, so lets ignore the first sentence and turn to the second.

Something that is first.

Now, gentlemen, what is first in a woman’s life?
If you answered “a high value man”, put down your copy of “The Game:Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists.” She doesnt care-men to modern women have as much lasting relevance to them as the Rwandan Tax Code does to the NYC mayor.

Men do not rank first for a woman. She ranks herself in that category-and us males are simply accessories to be toyed with or appliances to be ruthlessly exploited. Toss out the Greek alphabet boys, because it doesnt matter. Whether youre sticking it in her ass or youre married with three kids whose parentage youre unsure of ,its all shades of the same situation. We are all secondary importance-what counts to her is what we can do for her hypergamously-driven needs.

Many guys would be under the impression being able to get laid easily without the complications of marriage, relationships, and so forth makes a man “first”.It does not. It simply reduces the cost of sex.

This is not to say its a negative achievement for a man to reduce this cost;but it doesnt make him first ahead of other men any more then saving money on your car insurance makes you a god of driving.

Many guys believe the ability to attract women is some sign of “first” status. All it does is signify the ability to attract the opposite sex. No more, and no less. Assuming this imparts practical primacy is like saying attracting bees with a flower garden makes a man qualified to be “first”.The act has a specific outcome from a specific input. No more, and no less.

“I get laid more often then you, so im perpetuating my genes better then you/your friend/other males and therefore I’m an Alpha.”

Eh, no.

One-if youre really getting laid for that reason, be advised there are drug dealing ghetto residents who have double digit kid counts to their name. I doubt they’d be held up as a “first” example of anything except very poor impulse control.Good luck topping that count while still having the resources to raise those kids. Unless youve inherited a lot of money, the time you put into building your wealthy business will by nature preclude you from mass impregnating women.

Bottom line-A male who easily bangs or meets women may be good at meeting and banging women(or not-more on that idea in a moment) , but that’s it. It doesnt mean he’s really a “first” man among anyone.

“Well, Octavian, here’s where youre wrong. A guy who gets in a girls pants is ahead of the ‘beta’ schlubs paying for her shopping habits with no sex to show for it, so he’s an Alpha.”

Ahem. Let me Clear My Throat, Mr Detractor.

The definition of an Alpha by that measure comes from a Matriarchial perspective. Put simply-a guy is defined as alpha by easy sex only from the girl’s perspective.

Which means hypergamy is the arbiter of which guy is really “first” or not-now does that idea have any place in the redpill view? Fuck no, I say.

Here’s what I mean in a practical sense. Say a man decides to dedicate himself to martial arts, charity work, and entepreneurship. He’s open to getting laid but because of his responsibilities , he just cant spare the time or money to troll the bars for easy tail.

According to the common use of the word ‘Alpha’, he’s not,because hes not getting laid.

Now take a man who believes in “The One”, indulges in romantic ideals about women, and seeks the matriarchy-enhanced ideal of marriage. But, because he’s the highest earner in the community and has political power, he’s drowning in pussy. Despite being a blue-pill man in thinking , he’s getting laid easily and without expending effort on committment costs such as marriage and dating. According to the common definition, because he’s getting laid easily he’s an ‘Alpha’.

Who serves the Matriarchy and collective hypergamy the most? Guy number One, or Guy Number Two?

Worse yet, its possible for a man to be a beta chump and an ‘alpha player’ at the same time. Take a case of a beta man chasing his one itis. He’s got his ideal girl, and pursues her despite said girl clearly not giving a fuck about him.In the meantime, other girls sense this emotional unavailability and throw themselves at him.He bangs them without any regard, because he’s Waiting for His One.

In mindset he’s as much of a chump as the classic Poindexter figure whiling his time away at the library , playing World of Warcraft. Just because his notch count is higher doesnt make his mindset any less bluepill. In one sense, he’s a player in terms of notch count-but he’s also a ‘beta’ chump at the same time.

Core point-because a guy gets laid easily doesnt mean his mindset isnt In The Matrix.

If we are to define any man as ‘first’, he has to be first to himself inside. If a woman occupies his mind before his own needs and benefits, he is not worthy of the term ‘Alpha’ no matter how hot or cold his sheets are.

“Leave then better then you found them” goes the popular pickup artist aphorism. Intended to prevent unethical use of the pickup techniques,the inherent problem with that statement is assuming she wasnt totalled the moment you met her.

It took a long time for me to jettison the broken idea of treating women “well”.Even when I knew it was time to pull the ripcord on an FWB or pickup which was drifiting towards the friendzone, a part of me still whispered in the background that what I was doing is “insensitive, unkind,etc.”

Perhaps its a remnant of my matriarchial programming echoing in my head,seeking an emotionally positive outcome for the girl despite knowing full and damn well she doesnt give a damn.But it took a singular experience recently to wake me the piss up.

In what has to be one of the most ironic Tuesday evenings ive ever had while sober, after finishing the book “The Keylogger” by Nicholas Jack I packed up my stuff in the campus commons for the next class. As I left the sofa-the only one in the room-a familiar looking blonde immediately started transferring her overstuffed backpack to my former seat.

“I figured i’d steal your sofa” she pipes up. Those silver eyes, they’re like the color of a dusty silver Jaguar convertible . I spend a millenia in a moment looking right at those windows to her soul, before offering “Expect a bill from me for keeping it warm.”

I smile at her, genuinely giddy at the thrill of the chase renewed. I know I have a problem guys, but its under control.I can quit chasing pussy anytime. Honest.

I roll into a DHV story and resume my spot on the sofa next to her. She tells me we share the same business class together (we’ve been in the same room for three months and I haven’t noticed?) .Time constraint -oh right I have class in five minutes, where did the time go??- neg , then get lost looking at her person again before remembering that fucking her right here in the public commons wasnt gonna happen regardless of how smooth my game was.I number close , roll off, then remember who the fuck I am and what planet im on once i’ve put twenty paces between us.

Some might interpret my emotions as signs of neediness. Au contraire-ive always like chasing girls. Its an irrational, pointless addiction to have, but I have it nonetheless. Even in my bluepill days, i’d done my share of infidelity. Some dogs chase cars, and I can totally understand how those poor pooches feel.

I text her in class we shared the next day.

“You must have the wrong number”

Eh, No. Im the guy. Meaning its in our damn DNA to get the girls’ phone numbers accurately recorded to memory. Somewhere , there’s an Egyptian temple with a girl’s Old Kingdom address engraved on the walls.

Text again, 30 minutes later.
“Who r U again?”

Now this shit was peculiar. SHE was the one who told ME we shared a class!!!

Thouroughly puzzled, I turn around in my seat to scan the rest of the lecture hall. I spot the girl-and next to her was a long haired guy, baseball cap on, Tapout motorcycle jacket, and the classic body language of a beta male in “mate guard mode”.

Oh.

“NVM Wrong Person.” I text back.

Aint no love in the heart of the city ,men. Absolve yourselves here and now of the burden to ‘do the right thing by women’, because that shit just flat out doesnt exist.That isnt a license to be an violent or possessive jerk-but dont apologize to a woman for anything. Ran over her dog by accident?

Shrug your shoulders and chive on. If you must feel morally bad, do so for the dog.
Woman trying to lock you down with a -shudder-relationship? Kick her to the curb as best suits your needs, and dont buy the tears and lies she’s selling.

Dont trust your emotions. Theyre her friend, not yours.Your ally is logic, and your knowledge of hypergamy means you can know the score the same time she does.Never forget that, and never let anyone convince you that being born with a scrotum means you’re somehow obligated to look out for cupcake.Always remember that at the end of the day, we men are just living appliances to any woman besides our mothers; your date has more concern for her shoes then she ever will about our emotional state as men,or her actions to the same.

Let go of the obligation of moral agency to a woman. Your interactions and peace of mind can only improve when you accept females as the amoral and pretty beings they are.